tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post7690495813672709226..comments2023-11-03T12:05:14.186+00:00Comments on N.I.L (Naijamum in London): Understanding Women....Lesson 101N.I.L (Naijamum in London)http://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-27935356182007666552011-01-12T22:50:01.550+00:002011-01-12T22:50:01.550+00:00@NAIJALINES:
LOL@ 'But women don't really ...@NAIJALINES:<br />LOL@ 'But women don't really understand men until they are older and have mastered the male psychology'......<br />I believe by 'mastered' you mean 'come to tolerate' ???? *smile*N.I.L (Naijamum in London)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-44458878610340045102011-01-12T17:08:28.720+00:002011-01-12T17:08:28.720+00:00Women are definitely more complicated. But women d...Women are definitely more complicated. But women don't really understand men until they are older and have mastered the male psychology. lol.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09467664797856391600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-65038952382883128482011-01-12T15:10:54.678+00:002011-01-12T15:10:54.678+00:00RE: @ILOLA:
LOL @'i always told myself that I ...RE: @ILOLA:<br />LOL @'i always told myself that I am 'simple and different'....Same here.<br />I used to argue with male friends that I was simple and straightforward. <br />However, as I have grown older, I am first to admit that only God can understand me *smile*<br />Thanks for dropping by.N.I.L (Naijamum in London)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-27787850451621590772011-01-12T13:19:16.571+00:002011-01-12T13:19:16.571+00:00Sorry, First time here
atilola.blogspot.comSorry, First time here<br /><br />atilola.blogspot.com@ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-40004738400751618492011-01-12T13:17:59.185+00:002011-01-12T13:17:59.185+00:00Women are definitely more complicated. I used to t...Women are definitely more complicated. I used to think otherwise b4 cos i always told myself that I am 'simple and different'. But after getting into d most serious relationship of my life, the way I have handle some issues and surprised myself made me know that I am not dat 'different' after all. Deep down, I am still a woman.<br /><br />Women are the more complicated gender, long and short.@ilolahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18034184376612190658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-28372184704311270152011-01-09T22:24:09.665+00:002011-01-09T22:24:09.665+00:00@Angelsbeauty:
Thanks so much for the lovely compl...@Angelsbeauty:<br />Thanks so much for the lovely compliment re: the relationship with my kids.<br />We have good and bad days. Some days I speak softly, some days I shout!!! *smile*<br />Yes, we are definitely complicated. Even I have to admit that..and my hubby will agree....LOL<br />Thanks for dropping by!<br /><br />@betrayed:<br />Re: handled well...I really was freaking out (in my mind) because I did not understand what the girl meant by 'liking him'!<br />As you can see, I am a very suspicious mother *smile*<br />Thanks for dropping by.N.I.L (Naijamum in London)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-86924468688248430702011-01-09T16:29:52.798+00:002011-01-09T16:29:52.798+00:00you have a gr8 relationship with them, i hope i ca...you have a gr8 relationship with them, i hope i can handle such when my time comes! you handled it so well..i so lolled at you freaking out in ur mind -lmho!!<br />women are too too complicated, even women cannot understand fellow women.betrayednaijawifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00263718016234247101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-7068106796867988482011-01-09T13:48:34.654+00:002011-01-09T13:48:34.654+00:00Lol how funny. I love the relationship you have wi...Lol how funny. I love the relationship you have with your sons and it's good you are giving them tips now. Women are complicated o. Lol I used to fight back men that said that we were but those days I have realized they r right as I find myself complicated too at times. Lovely piece.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-63593770198960311912011-01-07T11:25:43.335+00:002011-01-07T11:25:43.335+00:00@Ibhade:
Thanks again for that story.
I shall be p...@Ibhade:<br />Thanks again for that story.<br />I shall be passing this on to my hubby the next time he complains about me and my confused ways *smile*N.I.L (Naijamum in London)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-45599074833336770382011-01-07T11:23:51.831+00:002011-01-07T11:23:51.831+00:00@P.E.T:
Re: 'Parenting, sure takes alot of wis...@P.E.T:<br />Re: 'Parenting, sure takes alot of wisdom.' Believe me, it really does....and loads of patience too!!!<br />Re: 'You've got boys and your heart is racing'.....Gbam!!! Especially as I have come to realise that little girls are more cunning and calculating than the boys! <br />Anyway, I'm relying on my Lord every second - to guide me through this parenting journey.<br />Amen to your prayer oh! Many thanks for stopping by and I wish you a blessed 2011 ....According to you the year two thousand and ELEVATE (Love that)!!!N.I.L (Naijamum in London)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-20580500092153296412011-01-07T11:17:50.139+00:002011-01-07T11:17:50.139+00:00@Prism:
I'm glad you laughed because that'...@Prism:<br />I'm glad you laughed because that's the only thing that keeps us sane in this crazy world of ours abi?<br />Yes oh.. my Prof1 got a real lesson. I know there's more to come .....and I'm praying that God grants me (and all parents) the wisdom and calmness to guide our children through life - as best as we can. <br />Re: 'I don't think we are more complicated. I think we are only more expressive.': I never thought of that before....I do agree!<br />Perhaps its the fact that we communicate in a different way from men that causes soooo much confusion.<br />mmmmm....food for thought! I really can see that because my boys often think I go on and on about somethings! *laugh*<br />Thanks for stopping by.N.I.L (Naijamum in London)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-71954541046980231932011-01-07T11:11:17.463+00:002011-01-07T11:11:17.463+00:00@Gbenga:
Re: 'I've started learning parent...@Gbenga:<br />Re: 'I've started learning parenting tips already o! Thanks to Naijamum & Ibhade'<br />Abi oh? I have to confess that I'm still learning as the children didnt come with manual :)....So, I always ask and observe other parents (those I admire)<br /><br />Re:'[Now, that's a tight rope to walk on, even for adults! :)' ...totally agree. However, I think women are more skilful at saying 'something' WITHOUT saying 'anything' LOL<br /><br />RE'[I had to learn that fast enough in Primary school o!' <br />I can see you were a 'sharp' boy *smile*<br /><br />Re: Ibhade's story: truly fantastic. It really makes so much sense!<br /><br />Re: 'I don't need to be told, females are definitely more complex!' Tell me about it! Even when female friends ask me for my opinion, I often find myself 'editing' my utterances so I dont cause offence (intended or unintended)!<br />It's really a full time job trying to understand a woman....perhaps that's why most men dont even try *smile*<br /><br />Thanks for stopping by. Much appreciated.N.I.L (Naijamum in London)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-61025955318229841942011-01-07T09:42:36.277+00:002011-01-07T09:42:36.277+00:00Parenting, sure takes alot of wisdom. You've g...Parenting, sure takes alot of wisdom. You've got boys and your heart is racing, I hear girls have lorry loads of issues and i believe. <br />May God continually help you be the best mum.P.E.T. Projectshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06221822233883521488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-10681612150307088392011-01-06T20:08:18.398+00:002011-01-06T20:08:18.398+00:00Hahahahahahahahahahaha I couldn't stop laughin...Hahahahahahahahahahaha I couldn't stop laughing while reading this. Prof really got a lesson in women. <br />I don't think we are more complicated. I think we are only more expressive. A woman will find 10 ways to say a thing that a man can only say in 1 way. The same goes for emotions. :)Prism of an Immigranthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05290173306236432691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-42594872266243909962011-01-06T16:05:11.062+00:002011-01-06T16:05:11.062+00:00@Gbehgaawomodu....tnxX bros...:)@Gbehgaawomodu....tnxX bros...:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-33053795981774588522011-01-06T15:54:20.541+00:002011-01-06T15:54:20.541+00:00lol! I've started learning parenting tips alre...lol! I've started learning parenting tips already o! Thanks to Naijamum & Ibhade (her blog is an almost comprehensive handbook on parenting and marriage)<br /><br />The intro was really cool! [the contrast between you and your mum :)]<br /><br />'Well, you must not tell her you don't like her. But...you must never say you really like her also!' <br /><br />[Now, that's a tight rope to walk on, even for adults! :)]<br /><br /><br />"How could he not have know that Lily* sent her best-friend to quiz him?!": <br /><br />[I had to learn that fast enough in Primary school o! Especially when things discussed amongst the boys leaked so fast and girls easily knew ho was eyeing them and all. Some boys even sent friends of their 'targets' as spies too sha. Thankfully, I was too 'book-minded' to be implicated lol!<br /><br />@Ibhade: Splendid story! I guess that explains it all! :)<br /><br />I don't need to be told, females are definitely more complex! I have female friends; even those I had to work with in the Uni (Fellowship, etc.) showed me 'pepper' in my bid to try understand them and get them to be quite supportive. Mehn! It's serious, hard work!!!<br /><br />I'll definitely be watching out this space for more gist *rolling eyes*<br /><br />http://gbengaawomodu.wordpress.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-50569162875574208262011-01-06T12:53:00.205+00:002011-01-06T12:53:00.205+00:00@Mimi:
You sef....poor Lily?!...LOL
The girl must ...@Mimi:<br />You sef....poor Lily?!...LOL<br />The girl must have moved on by now *hissss*<br />I'm popping over to your blog to read the post.<br />Thanks<br />xoxoxoxoxN.I.L (Naijamum in London)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-30755935774144321662011-01-06T12:50:43.915+00:002011-01-06T12:50:43.915+00:00@Blessing:
RE: 'you're such an awesome mom...@Blessing:<br />RE: 'you're such an awesome mom!!!'<br />Many thanks for the lovely compliment BUT I can assure you that I am definitely a WIP (work in progress).<br />Most times, I find myself overwhelmed by this 'motherhood thingy'. Anyway, I'm trying to do my best!<br />Thanks so much for dropping by.<br /><br />@Nitty:<br />Wow....I love that story. Too true.<br />As Blessing said, even I get confused - as to what I really want - from time to time.<br />I shall pop over to read your post - xoxoxoxN.I.L (Naijamum in London)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15874463908664570341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-50921392548749336242011-01-06T08:25:47.094+00:002011-01-06T08:25:47.094+00:00Hehehehehe. OMG! This is hilarious. Well, i guess ...Hehehehehe. OMG! This is hilarious. Well, i guess Prof1 just had his first class in Understanding women 101. Poor Lily.<br /><br />Women are definitely more complex than men<br />http://mimibarber.blogspot.com/2010/11/lesson-in-feminine-behaviour.htmlMimi Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02025955724151716666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-47029339937306030012011-01-06T07:02:20.329+00:002011-01-06T07:02:20.329+00:00ahahahahaahahaaaahaaa.....oh! na wah for we mother...ahahahahaahahaaaahaaa.....oh! na wah for we mothers o!...'putting on the protective suit' all of a sudden!....*hi5* o jare! He's damn too young to be involved in a 'relationship!'...lolll.<br /><br />To your question, yep! we are v-e-r-y complicated o!Remembered the things i said about women in my older post 'THINKING ALOUD?'<br /><br />Have you heard about the indian proverb that said when GOD created the animals & man, HE found out he had ran out of materials so he decided to re-take materials from the LION, GIRAFFE, PEACOCK, PARROT, WIND, WATER, & MAN. Alas, man was so happy when he was presented with woman, but returned her back few days later complaining she talks too much, unpredictable, always want, want,& want! That he didn't want her.So GOD took her away from him. Only for man to walk slowly to GOD dragging his feet & told GOD everywhere is boring, that he wants her back. GOD returned her to him. Only for him to come back in few days time to complain again, but GOD told him he just have to live with her becox he created her from the combination of different elements, hence she would be BOLD & COURAGEOUS like the lion, BEAUTIFUL & TALKATIVE like the peacock & parrot.GRACEFUL like the giraffe, unpredictable like the wind & unstable like the waters. So man had no choice!..lol. EVEN GOD HIMSELF HAD NOT RESTED SINCE HE CREATED US O!..ahahahaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009143619128599368.post-65712090006760757132011-01-06T01:21:53.148+00:002011-01-06T01:21:53.148+00:00Awww....you're such an awesome mom!!! I'm ...Awww....you're such an awesome mom!!! I'm taking notes! Wow I love the relationship that you have with your son!<br /><br />Women ARE definitely without a shadow of a doubt more complicated than men, I confuse myself at times....lolBlessinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00063729360732047180noreply@blogger.com